Tuesday, February 24th, 2009

One Year

Grandma and I

It’s so hard to believe, but;  one year ago this week, my sweet Grandma passed away.

My heart still aches. And, I don’t see that ever going away. I think of her every single day, at least once. I don’t ever want to stop thinking of her.

I’ve struggled a lot with what to do this week to honor her memory. I don’t know. I visited her grave last weekend, as well as one of her very favorite spots in her hometown. It’s not enough.

But, I love you Grandma. I love you.

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Sunday, February 22nd, 2009

Enquiring Minds…

My lovely friend Angella was recently interviewed by the equally lovely Kristin. You know I hate to be left out, so I asked Angella to interview me, too. Because she is awesome, she promptly sent me five interview questions, which I accidentally deleted. I was then ashamed to comment on her blog for nearly a week. Then, in an effort to get me to comment on her blog, she posted a giveaway for something I really, really wanted to win. So, I had to comment and then I had to fess up to my laziness (but to be fair? I have been sick). Today, I searched my deleted items folder, dug out her questions, and well…here’s what she had for me!

1. You commented on one of my posts before that The Boy and you knew pretty quickly that you were a good fit for each other. Will there be wedding bells any time in the near future (Because NOBODY HAS ASKED YOU THAT LATELY)? (And also. I could use a reason to finally come to Oregon) (Assuming I’d be invited) (And if not, I’d crash it)

We did know pretty early on that we were a good match. At the risk of sounding SUPER CHEESY, he’s definitely everything I didn’t know I was looking for. We’re asked ALL THE TIME when we’ll get engaged/married/have a baby, which is really freaking annoying. (Angella, I give YOU a pass for asking this because a) I love you and b) I kind of walked right into this line of questioning, didn’t I?) In the past, I’ve been quite open about my relationships – I mean I’d talk about ANYTHING. And, those relationships didn’t work out. So, I’m calling this relationship a closed book and not being quite so open. Also, there are things I know about people’s relationships that I’m just not that comfortable knowing. I’m also quite certain that if the other party in these relationships knew what was shared about them? They’d be horrified.

Anyway, obviously, we’re on a tight-ish deadline. I have to be completely done having kids by the time I’m 34, which is 4 years from now. I’d like to be engaged for a while before getting married, and then be married a while before having kids. We’re definitely moving in that direction, and I’m quite certain I’ll spend the rest of my life with this fantastic boy. But, other than that – you’ll have to wait and see. And, of course Angella, if it happens, you’re invited.
2. I know that you work for tourism in Oregon (Or did…I know you just started a new job).  If I had only a weekend, what would I need to see in your fair state?

This is a tough one – there is SO much to do and see here that it’s hard to just spend a weekend. My hope is that you would come for one weekend and have so much fun that you would just have to come back again, and again and again. I’d suggest you spend the weekend (wait, can it be a 3-day weekend?) in Portland, and I’d take you (wait, am I invited on your weekend?) out to my favorite winery, Sokol Blosser where we’d taste awesome Pinot Noirs and also my most favorite wine ever, their Pinot Noir Rose. We’d hit one or two more wineries, and then head back into Portland for TAX-FREE SHOPPING in Northwest (where Kerri and Chris live!) and the Pearl. In the Pearl, we’d stop for a pretzel at Deschutes. But, that’s all we’re allowed to eat, because I’m taking you to my favorite place for dinner, Andina. We have one more stop before I take you back to your posh hotel (they have a pillow bar!) – we’ll have one last delicious cocktail at the Teardrop.

The next morning, we’ll head out early-ish to get pedicures with Kerri, then we’ll go to Muu Muu’s afterward. It’s what we ALWAYS do. Now, here is what is going to happen: Kerri and I will each PRETEND that we’re going to order Eggs Benedict. But, when the waiter arrives, we’ll actually order the Brutus Smash, which is what I recommend you order, too. Because it’s a 3 day weekend, we’re not worried about time, so after lunch, we’d hop into the car and head to Hood River. There is lots to see on the way – so I hope you brought your camera (because you like to take pictures, right?). After a long day, we’d have dinner at my second favorite restaurant, Belly Timber, and I’d drop you back at your hotel.

I’m sure you’re booking your ticket RIGHT NOW.

3. I know that you like pink (Duh), and that you have a Barbie mouse pad. Is there anything else we need to know about this love of pink that you have?

This is shocking, but I’m kind of letting my love of pink go. I KNOW. I kind of limit the pink to my kitchen and bathroom (although I do have pink accents in my bedroom). I’m not drawn to it as much as I used to be, though I do still consider it my favorite color.  Oh, and, my coworkers might tell you that my cubical is very pink. And, they would be telling the truth.

4. Have you ever been to Canada?  If so, where? If not, WHY NOT?

I HAVE been to Canada. I think I was 16 or 17 and I went there with my mom, step-dad, and half brother. It was supposed to be a “family vacation” but it was actually terrible. My brother was a complete ass on the drive up and the only “FUN” thing we did was swim in the hotel pool. Teenage Rhiannon was very unimpressed (with the vacation, not Canada). The boy and I talk often of taking a ski vacation to Whistler, or spending a long weekend in B.C. Flights are pretty cheap, so you may see us up there pretty soon!

5. Are you working in your dream career?  If so, what do you love about it? If not, what would you love to be doing?

Yes, yes, and absolutely yes. The industry I work in (tourism) is a perfect fit for me, and I’m absolutely positive that I have the BEST STATE in the U.S. to promote. Travel is SO IMPORTANT to the economy and it’s also something that makes people happy. As for my job function, I think online marketing is a good fit for me – and as it turns out, I’m kind of addicted to this social media thing. So, there you have it! (also, I think question 2 kind of proves that I love this state, and my job)

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Friday, February 20th, 2009

Friday Bullets: Falling Apart Edition

  • Friends, I am writing you from my deathbed.
  • Not only do I have a, hopefully tiny, kidney stone, I also have a sore throat and a sniffly nose.
  • Also, my tummy hurts.
  • But, still, I’m going to go to work. Because get this? I ACTUALLY LIKE MY JOB!
  • Did you know that I’m OFFICIALLY going to BlogHer? Because I am. I’m volunteering this year and will be greeting you at the registration desk.
  • I promise not to scowl at all the registrants. Unless they deserve it.
  • But, the thing is, Lupron Rhi will be long gone by then, so I’ll have to take responsibility for my actions. I hate that.
  • I am also going to Las Vegas with my boyfriend in May. I believe it to be IMPOSSIBLE to spend more than 3 days in Vegas, so we’re going for two days.
  • This will give me plenty of time to sun, shop and eat.
  • Speaking of sun, my boyfriend is leaving early early tomorrow morning for GET THIS, a conference in Miami.
  • I am jealous. But, he promises to bring me back a fun gift.
  • So, this weekend, I’ll split my time between my deathbed and my deathcouch.
  • Next Tuesday, our J.Crew outlet opens! I have a date with Kali to celebrate this. VERY, VERY EXCITING.

That is all. Tell me, what are you doing this fine weekend? And, will you come visit me on my deathcouch?

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