Tuesday, September 14th, 2010

The Bouquet

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I promise promise to provide a real wedding update soon, but you see I’m very exhausted and having a hard time adjusting to my actual time zone AND being back at work after 3 glorious weeks off. I’ve had a ton of questions about my bouquet, so I thought I’d tell you a bit about that and then go nap for the next 3 days.

Before I hired my wonderful wedding coordinator Misty, I stalked her via blog for a few weeks. When she posted this gem, I knew I had to hire her.

When my Grandmother passed away, my aunt and I spent an afternoon going through all her costume jewelry. She had SO MANY lovely lacquer brooches and clip on earrings. I put them in my pile not knowing what I’d ever do with them. When I saw Misty’s blog post on the brooch bouquet, I got chills.

I contacted the lady mentioned in her post and was told that it would be $350 to assemble the bouquet and I’d have to provide 50-75 pieces. I had nowhere near that many. Also, I wasn’t thrilled about spending that kind of money for a bouquet. As luck would have it,  a couple of weeks later, I met the girl who would end up being my floral designer at a mini bridal show at Portland Center Stage and she said she could assemble the bouquet for a fraction of the price.

The final bouquet contains brooches and clip on earrings (and even a ring or two)  from my mom, both my Grandmothers, my great Auntie Helen and both Bill’s grandmothers. I still didn’t have quite enough, so I purchased some extras on eBay.

According to my bathroom scale, the bouquet weighs 3.2 pounds. Which totally explains why my arm ached the day after my wedding. It currently sits on my mantle and I love that I have a bouquet that I can keep forever. Also, I know my Grandma would have loved to know her brooches were  a part of our big day.

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  1. agirlandaboy says:

    That’s awesome. I loved it before I knew about its sentimental value, and now I love it a hundred times more.
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    1. Kali says:

      It was so gorgeous! And such a great idea. Your grandma was definitely a part of the day!
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      1. kathy mcc says:

        What a fantastic idea! It turned out beautifully…as did you!

        1. Kerri Anne says:

          Definitely one of my favorite details from your big day. It was so gorgeous in your hands and then later on the guest book table, too.

          Also, can we talk about the LIGHTS? I want to marry the armory lights.
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          1. K says:

            That is the coolest thing ever! So awesome to now have an heirloom that means so much to you.

            1. K says:

              Oh, and I agree with Kerri Anne about those lights. I’m in love!

              1. NGS says:

                It is beautiful. I’m a tiny bit jealous because the bouquet was one of my least favorite parts of our wedding. I think I left it lying on a coat rack somewhere!! (Of course, it goes without saying that you are exceptionally lovely in that photo, too.)

                1. Kate says:

                  Awww! I think I got a tear in my eye reading that. How incredibly special that bouquet is, for a multitude of reasons. I love it even more now.

                  1. sizzle says:

                    I love how that incorporates women important to you on your special day plus it lasts a lifetime. Wonderful, sentimental touch!

                    1. slynnro says:

                      I kinda want to renew my vows so I can have one too.
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                      1. Britt says:

                        Absolutely fantastic! It looks great, and the sentimentality is a huge bonus!
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                        1. Becky says:

                          One word … STUNNING! Just from what you’ve showed so far, everything looked so thoughtful and beautiful and stylish! Congratulations! I look forward to more photos!
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                          1. Kristabella says:

                            So beautiful and such a great idea! Something to have forever!
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                            1. Dots says:

                              Rhi! I knew I loved it before I knew the back story and now I love it even more. What a wonderful way to incorporate your family and a keepsake that doesn’t involve dried flowers!
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                              1. Angella says:

                                I LOVE it. Love it, love it, love it.
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                                1. Isabel says:

                                  The bouquet is beautiful. The story behind it makes it magical.
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                                  1. heidikins says:

                                    I got goosebumps reading this post–what a fantastic idea, and a gorgeous bouquet.

                                    xox
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                                    1. Tara says:

                                      Your bouquet is amazing! Its so nice that you could have pieces from so many women in your family!

                                      1. regan says:

                                        I love your bouquet so much. What are the “stems” made from?
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                                        1. Janssen says:

                                          SO beautiful!! I’ve never seen anything like it.

                                          1. alimartell says:

                                            this is amazing.
                                            LOVE.
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                                            1. Aly @ Breathe Gently says:

                                              I adore, ADORE your bouquet. Can’t wait to hear more wedding recaps, you make a beautiful bride!

                                              1. HollyLynne says:

                                                Oh, wow. The sentimental value just makes it that much more amazing. LOVE!
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                                                1. jessica says:

                                                  Congratulations, Rhi! You are a gorgeous bride!

                                                  1. elz says:

                                                    I LOVE it. Stunning (bride, groom, bouquet) I saw the etsy seller profiled on Bright Side and nearly died. I wish I could have done that for my wedding. But, I am SO doing a replica for my 10th Anniversary. Can you pass along the name of your florist so I can see if she would create one for me?
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                                                    1. Alyce says:

                                                      It is lovely. What a wonderful way to incorporate the family into your special day.

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