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There are two places in my life where I’ve never had trouble sleeping. Places where I’ve felt so safe that I don’t wake up in a panic, wondering where I’m at, places where I don’t toss and turn. Both of these homes were my Grandmother’s, and both are places where there is SO much love and so much serenity that I could just sleep, and sleep and sleep and not worry.

I have to say goodbye to one of these places. We’ve known that my Grandma’s main home would be sold. We’ve known it. But now, before it’s even on the market, there is a very interested buyer. And, it’s time to say goodbye.

Goodbye to the TV Room, where we watched taped episodes of Anne of Green Gables together, and also played with a teeny tiny Lhasa Apso puppy, named Chou-Li.

Goodbye to the breakfast nook where many an awkward photo was taken.

But, also some pretty fantastic ones.

Goodbye to the family room, where a teeny tiny girl opened many a Christmas Present.

And, where a not so teeny tiny girl did the very same thing for the next 20 years.

Goodbye to the patio, from where you could see the best damn view in Portland.

And, the prettiest flowers.

Goodbye to the living room where some of my best memories were made.

And, where we came together as a family.

If the next family has even a smidgen of the good memories we’ve had in this house, I think they’ll be very happy.

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OK, and now I am crying. And checking flights to go visit my grandmother the weekend after San Francisco. (It’s her birthday and I just decided I want to surprise her.) I feel the same way about both of my grandmother’s houses. They are thick with memory, some of my fondest ever. Hugs to you babe.

This is how I felt when my parents sold the house I grew up in.

I’m so sorry for your loss, but you have such a wonderful family and such a wonderful spirit that I know there are plenty of truly wonderful memories still to come.

Look at that view. It’s incredible. I’m sorry you have to say so many goodbyes.

The house may soon belong to someone else, but the memories will always be yours. Hang on to them and you’ll always have that house.

I’m glad you have had such great memories there. I totally agree with Kate.

What a sweet post!

I can sleep like that in my brother’s house, in the room in the basement. It is so dark and quiet. Well, until the kids get up and start running right above my head.

Well, I would pull your hair, but it’s too cute today. Neener!:) And I only hope and pray that my blog can be half the blog yours is.:)

Saying goodbye to a beloved home is like saying goodbye to a dear friend. I am glad you have such wonderful memories – and unforgettable pictures!

Jane

Rhi as you said, it’s time to say good bye to the 2nd safest place you know. Luckily you and Daddy will still have the beach house and there are so many memories coming for the two of you, aunts and uncles too.
I feel the new owners are so lucky to have purchased a home that was created nothing but love, joy and happiness and that was mostly your doing. Grandma was so proud of you and they told me their life had never been more fulfilled as when you were born. Remember the you always have your memories and no one can take that from you! You are the best and I want you to remember how important you were to your grandparents and how much love, joy and happiness you brought to them.

For some reason, this post makes me miss my Grandmother so much.

What a beautiful post. I’m sorry you have to say goodbye to a place filled with so many memories.

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